**Summary:**
This PR improves the user feedback when encountering an HTTP 413
(_CONTENT_TOO_LARGE)_ error caused by a file size limit in the proxy /
ingress controller in a self-hosted environment.
**Example scenario:**
A self-hosted environment serves AFFiNE through an nginx proxy, and the
`client_max_body_size` variable in the configuration file is set to a
smaller size (e.g. 1MB) than AFFiNE's own file size limit (typically
100MB). Previously, the user would get an error saying the file is
larger than 100MB regardless of file size, as all of these cases
resulted in the same internal error. With this fix, the
_CONTENT_TOO_LARGE_ error is now handled separately and gives better
feedback to the user that the failing upload is caused by a fault in the
proxy configuration.
**Screenshot of new error message**
<img width="798" height="171" alt="1MB_now"
src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/07b00cd3-ce37-4049-8674-2f3dcb916ab5"
/>
**Affected files:**
1. packages/common/nbstore/src/storage/errors/over-size.ts
2. packages/common/nbstore/src/impls/cloud/blob.ts
I'm open to any suggestions in terms of the wording used in the message
to the user. The fix has been tested with an nginx proxy.
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## Summary by CodeRabbit
* **Bug Fixes**
* Improved user-facing error messages for file upload failures. When an
upload exceeds the file size limit, users now receive a clearer message
indicating that the upload was stopped by the network proxy due to the
size restriction, providing better understanding of why the upload was
rejected.
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Closes: [BS-3332](https://linear.app/affine-design/issue/BS-3332/错误信息)
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## Summary by CodeRabbit
- **Bug Fixes**
- Improved error messages when file uploads exceed the allowed size, now showing the maximum file size limit in a human-readable format.
- Enhanced status updates for oversized files by displaying clear error messages during blob uploads.
- **Style**
- Error messages for file size limits are now more user-friendly and informative.
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We should not use async on `connect` and `disconnect`, for `WebSocketConnection` will never connect when offline.
We should handle the connection status of each storage in sync, using the `connection.waitForConnect`
This PR also puts the connection reference count on the `connect` and disconnect`
Daniel Dybing