Close [BS-2458](https://linear.app/affine-design/issue/BS-2458/toc-dnd重构)
### What Changes
- Refactor toc note card dnd with `std.dnd`
- Extract note display mode change to command `changeNoteDisplayMode`
- It will reorder notes when the display mode changed from `EdgelessOnly` to page mode visible (a.k.a `DocOnly` or `Both`)
### What Changes
1. Used `@preact/signal` and `@lit/context` to simplify repetitive passing of properties of TOC components,
2. Fixed TOC invalid when editor changed, such as click new page button.