build: allow node package depends on workspace packages (#11963)

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **New Features**
  - Added a unified CLI entry point for server operations and introduced a new CLI executable alias.
  - Centralized and simplified server startup, allowing selection between CLI and server modes.
  - Added static migration module aggregation for easier migration management.

- **Bug Fixes**
  - Improved platform-specific native module loading for better compatibility and reliability.

- **Refactor**
  - Streamlined server build, startup, and artifact management processes.
  - Reorganized and simplified workflow and configuration files for backend services.
  - Transitioned export styles and import mechanisms for native modules to enhance maintainability.

- **Chores**
  - Removed unused dependencies and configuration files.
  - Updated test cases to reflect refined server flavor logic.
  - Adjusted package and build configurations for consistency and clarity.

- **Revert**
  - Removed legacy scripts and loaders no longer needed after refactor.
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packages/backend/server/src/native.ts

@@ -1,17 +1,4 @@
-import { createRequire } from 'node:module';
-
-let serverNativeModule: typeof import('@affine/server-native');
-try {
-  serverNativeModule = await import('@affine/server-native');
-} catch {
-  const require = createRequire(import.meta.url);
-  serverNativeModule =
-    process.arch === 'arm64'
-      ? require('../server-native.arm64.node')
-      : process.arch === 'arm'
-        ? require('../server-native.armv7.node')
-        : require('../server-native.node');
-}
+import serverNativeModule from '@affine/server-native';
 
 export const mergeUpdatesInApplyWay = serverNativeModule.mergeUpdatesInApplyWay;