build: allow node package depends on workspace packages (#11963)

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **New Features**
  - Added a unified CLI entry point for server operations and introduced a new CLI executable alias.
  - Centralized and simplified server startup, allowing selection between CLI and server modes.
  - Added static migration module aggregation for easier migration management.

- **Bug Fixes**
  - Improved platform-specific native module loading for better compatibility and reliability.

- **Refactor**
  - Streamlined server build, startup, and artifact management processes.
  - Reorganized and simplified workflow and configuration files for backend services.
  - Transitioned export styles and import mechanisms for native modules to enhance maintainability.

- **Chores**
  - Removed unused dependencies and configuration files.
  - Updated test cases to reflect refined server flavor logic.
  - Adjusted package and build configurations for consistency and clarity.

- **Revert**
  - Removed legacy scripts and loaders no longer needed after refactor.
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packages/backend/native/package.json

@@ -4,7 +4,6 @@
   "engines": {
     "node": ">= 10.16.0 < 11 || >= 11.8.0"
   },
-  "type": "module",
   "main": "./index.js",
   "module": "./index.js",
   "types": "index.d.ts",