build: allow node package depends on workspace packages (#11963)

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **New Features**
  - Added a unified CLI entry point for server operations and introduced a new CLI executable alias.
  - Centralized and simplified server startup, allowing selection between CLI and server modes.
  - Added static migration module aggregation for easier migration management.

- **Bug Fixes**
  - Improved platform-specific native module loading for better compatibility and reliability.

- **Refactor**
  - Streamlined server build, startup, and artifact management processes.
  - Reorganized and simplified workflow and configuration files for backend services.
  - Transitioned export styles and import mechanisms for native modules to enhance maintainability.

- **Chores**
  - Removed unused dependencies and configuration files.
  - Updated test cases to reflect refined server flavor logic.
  - Adjusted package and build configurations for consistency and clarity.

- **Revert**
  - Removed legacy scripts and loaders no longer needed after refactor.
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.github/deployment/node/Dockerfile

@@ -10,4 +10,4 @@ RUN apt-get update && \
   apt-get install -y --no-install-recommends openssl && \
   rm -rf /var/lib/apt/lists/*
 
-CMD ["node", "--import", "./scripts/register.js", "./dist/index.js"]
+CMD ["node", "./dist/main.js"]

.github/deployment/self-host/compose.yaml

@@ -1,60 +0,0 @@
-services:
-  affine:
-    image: ghcr.io/toeverything/affine-graphql:stable
-    container_name: affine_selfhosted
-    command:
-      ['sh', '-c', 'node ./scripts/self-host-predeploy && node ./dist/index.js']
-    ports:
-      - '3010:3010'
-      - '5555:5555'
-    depends_on:
-      redis:
-        condition: service_healthy
-      postgres:
-        condition: service_healthy
-    volumes:
-      # custom configurations
-      - ~/.affine/self-host/config:/root/.affine/config
-      # blob storage
-      - ~/.affine/self-host/storage:/root/.affine/storage
-    logging:
-      driver: 'json-file'
-      options:
-        max-size: '1000m'
-    restart: unless-stopped
-    environment:
-      - NODE_OPTIONS="--import=./scripts/register.js"
-      - AFFINE_CONFIG_PATH=/root/.affine/config
-      - REDIS_SERVER_HOST=redis
-      - DATABASE_URL=postgres://affine:affine@postgres:5432/affine
-      - NODE_ENV=production
-      # Telemetry allows us to collect data on how you use the affine. This data will helps us improve the app and provide better features.
-      # Uncomment next line if you wish to quit telemetry.
-      # - TELEMETRY_ENABLE=false
-  redis:
-    image: redis
-    container_name: affine_redis
-    restart: unless-stopped
-    volumes:
-      - ~/.affine/self-host/redis:/data
-    healthcheck:
-      test: ['CMD', 'redis-cli', '--raw', 'incr', 'ping']
-      interval: 10s
-      timeout: 5s
-      retries: 5
-  postgres:
-    image: postgres:16
-    container_name: affine_postgres
-    restart: unless-stopped
-    volumes:
-      - ~/.affine/self-host/postgres:/var/lib/postgresql/data
-    healthcheck:
-      test: ['CMD-SHELL', 'pg_isready -U affine']
-      interval: 10s
-      timeout: 5s
-      retries: 5
-    environment:
-      POSTGRES_USER: affine
-      POSTGRES_PASSWORD: affine
-      POSTGRES_DB: affine
-      PGDATA: /var/lib/postgresql/data/pgdata