fix: avoid unnecessary rerendering of selected-rect (#12583)

### Changed

- Note scale issue
- Overlay should call refresh when `clear` is called
- Optimize edgeless-selected-rect to avoid unecessary rerendering

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

- **New Features**
  - Edgeless note blocks now respect both minimum and maximum size limits when resizing.

- **Improvements**
  - Enhanced performance and responsiveness of resize and rotate handles in selection overlays by caching allowed handles and optimizing cursor management.
  - Cursor styles for resize and rotate handles are now set more reliably and efficiently through declarative styling.

- **Bug Fixes**
  - Ensured overlay clearing now properly refreshes the renderer for more consistent visual updates.
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blocksuite/affine/blocks/surface/src/renderer/overlay.ts

@@ -35,7 +35,9 @@ export abstract class Overlay extends Extension {
     ]);
   }
 
-  clear() {}
+  clear() {
+    this.refresh();
+  }
 
   dispose() {}