refactor(server): standarderlize metrics and trace with OTEL (#5054)

you can now export span to Zipkin and metrics to Prometheus when developing locally
follow the docs of OTEL: https://opentelemetry.io/docs/instrumentation/js/exporters/

<img width="2357" alt="image" src="https://github.com/toeverything/AFFiNE/assets/8281226/ec615e1f-3e91-43f7-9111-d7d2629e9679">

packages/backend/server/tests/auth.spec.ts

@@ -5,7 +5,6 @@ import test from 'ava';
 
 import { ConfigModule } from '../src/config';
 import { GqlModule } from '../src/graphql.module';
-import { MetricsModule } from '../src/metrics';
 import { AuthModule } from '../src/modules/auth';
 import { AuthResolver } from '../src/modules/auth/resolver';
 import { AuthService } from '../src/modules/auth/service';
@@ -40,7 +39,6 @@ test.beforeEach(async () => {
       PrismaModule,
       GqlModule,
       AuthModule,
-      MetricsModule,
       RateLimiterModule,
     ],
   }).compile();