refactor(server): standarderlize metrics and trace with OTEL (#5054)

you can now export span to Zipkin and metrics to Prometheus when developing locally
follow the docs of OTEL: https://opentelemetry.io/docs/instrumentation/js/exporters/

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.github/helm/affine/charts/graphql/templates/monitoring.yaml

@@ -1,13 +0,0 @@
-{{- if .Values.global.gke.enabled -}}
-apiVersion: monitoring.googleapis.com/v1
-kind: PodMonitoring
-metadata:
-  name: "{{ .Chart.Name }}-monitoring"
-spec:
-  selector:
-    matchLabels:
-      app.kubernetes.io/name: "{{ include "graphql.name" . }}"
-  endpoints:
-    - port: {{ .Values.service.port }}
-      interval: 30s
-{{- end }}

.github/helm/affine/charts/sync/templates/monitoring.yaml

@@ -1,13 +0,0 @@
-{{- if .Values.global.gke.enabled -}}
-apiVersion: monitoring.googleapis.com/v1
-kind: PodMonitoring
-metadata:
-  name: "{{ .Chart.Name }}-monitoring"
-spec:
-  selector:
-    matchLabels:
-      app.kubernetes.io/name: "{{ include "sync.name" . }}"
-  endpoints:
-    - port: {{ .Values.service.port }}
-      interval: 30s
-{{- end }}