feat: improve kanban grouping & data materialization (#14393)

fix #13512 
fix #13255
fix #9743 

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* **PR #14393** 👈

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

* **New Features**
* Enhanced Kanban view grouping support for additional property types:
checkboxes, select fields, multi-select fields, members, and created-by
information.
* Improved drag-and-drop visual feedback with more precise drop
indicators in Kanban views.

* **Bug Fixes**
* Refined grouping logic to ensure only compatible properties appear in
group-by options.
* Enhanced column visibility and ordering consistency when managing
Kanban views.
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blocksuite/affine/data-view/src/property-presets/multi-select/define.ts

@@ -10,6 +10,10 @@ export const multiSelectPropertyType = propertyType('multi-select');
 export const multiSelectPropertyModelConfig =
   multiSelectPropertyType.modelConfig({
     name: 'Multi-select',
+    kanbanGroup: {
+      enabled: true,
+      mutable: true,
+    },
     propertyData: {
       schema: SelectPropertySchema,
       default: () => ({