feat(core): improve reconnect handling (#15458)

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* **PR #15458** 👈

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## Summary by CodeRabbit

* **Bug Fixes**
* Improved realtime connection recovery with progressively longer retry
delays, capped to prevent excessive waiting.
* Connection retries now reset after successful reconnection and stop
cleanly when no longer needed.
* Reduced false error alerts by confirming repeated failures before
notifying users.
* Added cancellation handling when connection context changes or the
service is closed.

* **User Experience**
* Realtime connection alerts now identify authentication, network,
server, and timeout issues with localized messages.
* Active alerts are automatically dismissed when the connection
recovers.
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packages/common/nbstore/src/connection/connection.ts

@@ -31,7 +31,9 @@ export abstract class AutoReconnectConnection<
   private _status: ConnectionStatus = 'idle';
   private _error: Error | undefined = undefined;
   retryDelay = 3000;
+  maxRetryDelay = 60000;
   connectingTimeout = 15000;
+  private retryCount = 0;
   private refCount = 0;
   private connectingAbort?: AbortController;
   private reconnectingAbort?: AbortController;
@@ -103,6 +105,7 @@ export abstract class AutoReconnectConnection<
           clearTimeout(timeout);
           if (!signal.aborted) {
             this._inner = value;
+            this.retryCount = 0;
             this.setStatus('connected');
           } else {
             try {
@@ -150,16 +153,21 @@ export abstract class AutoReconnectConnection<
 
     this.reconnectingAbort = new AbortController();
     const signal = this.reconnectingAbort.signal;
+    const retryDelay = this.getRetryDelay(this.retryCount++);
     const timeout = setTimeout(() => {
       if (!signal.aborted) {
         this.innerConnect();
       }
-    }, this.retryDelay);
+    }, retryDelay);
     signal.addEventListener('abort', () => {
       clearTimeout(timeout);
     });
   }
 
+  protected getRetryDelay(retryCount: number) {
+    return Math.min(this.retryDelay * 2 ** retryCount, this.maxRetryDelay);
+  }
+
   connect() {
     this.refCount++;
     if (this.refCount === 1) {
@@ -175,6 +183,7 @@ export abstract class AutoReconnectConnection<
     }
     if (this.refCount === 0) {
       this.innerDisconnect();
+      this.retryCount = 0;
       this.setStatus('closed');
     }
   }